I believe the thread you are referring to was about you going out dressed on a footpath late at night. I think the concern was not that you were crossdressed but where you were. The members on this forum are typically concerned for the safety of others. The same advice would have probably been given to a man dressed as a man. As a GG, I would never venture out alone on a footpath late at night. So please don’t take offense at anything that was said. We all want you to be safe.