Lisa,
Maybe she'll try and get you away from this thought of losing , and concentrate on you and your happiness , you are the one she's treating not your wife , she will obviously do her best to bring her on board . I do know what it's like to be alone with counselling/therapy, I felt like I was hitting a brick wall , I had no one to talk to at home because I was the one with the problem and it was up to me to fix it . ( My Wife's words ).
