And I wonder why the general population think all crossdressers are pervs. Deebra, I've said it before and I'll say it again, why oh why do you not just open an account at one of those 'private' sites where everyone else is just like you and just enjoy yourself instead of pratting about on a publically open site like this tarring anyone with gender identity issues with your own fantasy brush? Fetlife comes to mine, I believe that is private.