Everyone has their own agenda and reason for crossdressing. I used to Rock the Man in a Dress style when I first started out on this journey. It seamed the right thing at the time, but I moved on from there. Almost every time I posted a pic of myself sans wig, I got a response that I would look so much better with a wig. Well now I have embraced the wig and I can't even think of going out dressed without it. I did notice that when I was Rockin the Bald Chick look, that I got A LOT of attention, double takes and whispers. That is because, I think, that I was presenting as as male in female clothes and people just can't compute that. AHHHHH, but with the wig, makeup, body clean shaved, it is a whole new ball game. I'm sure I don't pass on close inspection, and that's OK. My goal is to appear as a attractive woman in her 50's, NOT as a man out on a lark to get attention. I want the attention but not for the wrong reasons. I was walking into a bar the other night and some "gentlemen" were hanging out outside the bar in the outdoor seating area (I think they were smoking "something") and I got looked up and down and received several cat calls. THAT made me feel good about my presentation and my skills at transformation.
IMO that dress Is too short for the way you were presenting, if you had gone out Full Female, then the dress would have been just right, Again, in my opinion.
I think I have rambled on enough.
Peace & Love
Gerri
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