Darci, as has been said, we can't know what your wife intended. It would be irresponsible of us to reinforce any confirmation bias you might be harbouring right now out of wishful thinking.
Given what little context you've provided I'd urge caution. And communication. I'd suggest that latter far more strongly than actual action at the present.
You have a better idea of where your wife's head might be though.
Keep us posted.
