I think after 40 years of dressing in public every year there has been some small milestone. But when I think of it 2 years ago I went to Planned Parenthood to get some bloodwork done and went enfemme. There form asked how I referred to my gender and I checked of "gender fluid". The Doctor and staff treated me wonderfully and when it was my turn to be called in from the waiting room it was Stephanie they called for. I almost cried with joy to hear my true name in public.
