I think it may well be just that the individual went to the venue looking for an accepting atmosphere and then after being there was just uncomfortable with the venue. I myself experience that. I have gone to HM's or other venues with other girls as part of GNO and a desire to be out and not alone. I will likely do it again sometime. However, the truth is I don't drink, the music is loud, the patrons can be raucous... So, I find that after a bit I'm through having fun and prefer to find a different place to be. The thing that keeps me there as long as I am is just the overwhelming desire to be out and about while dressed. Often times when I have the opp to get out I will go to a movie by myself, or shopping, walking the stores, etc. I do like the fellowship of sisters but the venues I am not that attracted to.
Molly
