Well, Cindy, you're a newbee so u wouldn't know this. But, I'm an old timer so I'll explain it to u:

When I was a newbee like over 12 years ago? There were 100's of active posters like there r here now.

The thing is, except for a handful of old timers like me, the posters here r ALL NEW! So, what happened to the 100's of other T's that used to be active here? They r doing EXACTLY WHAT U SAID! They r out there living their lives as women or trans! And, they r too busy doing that to check in here!

Welcome, by the way. And, please ask any question u like here!:D