The replies are making this more clear to me. Most members of our group have outgrown the need to meet somewhere private. A few of us don't really have the option to leave our homes dressed, so the dressing rooms at our meeting place have been wonderful. Not every CD has the desire to dress publicly but it seems most do.

For those (in our group) that like to go out dressed often, a few phone calls to others is all it takes to plan on where (and when) we are going. The monthly meetings are still available for CDs that want to get in touch with others. And yes, there has been a decline for different reasons.