Am I still a crossdresser if I have't dressed in a LONG time

[Sometimes Steffi]

I come here frequently to read posts, check out the pictures, kinda live vicariously through others.

Yes, you are (still) a crossdresser, based on continuing to come here.

I suggest that you contact some other members from SF and meet them to do something en femme.

My safety rule is to meet in boy mode in a public place first, and then meet en femme.

However, there are some members here that I would meet en femme the first time without hesitation, based on their extensive history here.