Stefi, i completely agree. Wear what makes you feel good and look good. Why, if you can still pull it of, should you deny yourself the opportunity to look sexy? Both my wife's and my attitude is that it is more important to wear something that is appropriate for the occasion. Last night, my wife and I went to dinner with friends at a well known italian restaurant in Kansas CIty. I wore leather leggings and a silk peasant blouse and heels. She wore tight jeans and a sweater - yes, it was actually very mild in KC. It matched what most people were wearing. It would have been inappropriate to wear long formal gowns. If we are partying in what we call the Power and LIght district or westport, I might actually consider wearing flashier...you just have to consider the locale and event.
Its kind of interesting because a few years ago, i asked the same question here - my wife were out and about and i saw a young person on the street wearing a corset (it was in the Crossroads district, near the old Hamburger Mary's location), fishnets etc. So I posted the question - was it really appropriate? It was not Pride Week - simply about 2PM on a saturday afternoon in Mid-Town Kansas City. So many here thought my question was inappropriate answering - people should be able to wear what they want when they want. Just find it interesting.
XO
Bree
