Stephanie,
You may wellbe right about some comments being a little harsh but there's also being cruel to be kind.
The forum has a huge amount of experience behind it and when the vast majority say something isn't a good idea that's a good indicator it isn't and for good reasons.
Describing yourself as a sissy while aligning your lifestyle choice to a broader community that baulks at being labelled in that manner can leave an individual being isolated. Also coming out to the muggls by describing yourself as a sissy isn't gojng to have a good outcome as most outside our community only know the traditional derogatory definition.
I hope Leonal isn't put off by what's been said and appreciates that it's all written with good intentions and no malice. We all make mistakes along our journey. Folks here are simply trying to save Leonal from making a poor choice so early on.
