Ginger,
Why feel so nervous ? they are professionals , they've heard it all before !

Don't hold back , they can't begin to help if they don't have all the information, they're not mind readers . As for dressing or not , shouldn't be a problem for them , if it is then maybe find another therapist but don't use them for validation they won't thankyou for being used in that way .

I have no regrets , I wouldn't be where I am now without their help , through their help I found the right way of coming out to my son , I don't see him much but I haven't lost him .

The problem I had was being in a DADT situation I couldn't talk with my wife about the sessions , I can't say for certain if we would still be married if she had talked more .