If I dance as it comes to me naturally, following and interpreting the music, it feels like dancing like a woman. I am moving parts of my body as I see women dancing, not as I see men dancing. I have been conditioned since a young age to not behave like a girl in public (when it seemed to come naturally) so I only dance like that when no one is watching. I restrain myself, or more often than not, just forgo dancing in public. It is great fun though to dance as one with the music.