I’ve said it before. Crossdressing isn’t a race or a contest. You’re not a “better” dresser because you only wear panties and threw out your boxers, or because you go out every weekend or whatever. That being said, I thing the chorus of “just do it” can easily sound like an indictment for those who are still nervous about it, but I think the point is to tell you that most of the underlying reasons for your trepidation are largely unfounded, and the only way to get over that fear is to confront it head on so you can know that there is nothing to fear.