Thanks for the story, I totally get it. I believe that there are many out there that have the desire to dress feminine and want to be totally male outside of the clothing. My start was very much a sexual thing, but it has changed as I have aged, to a 95% time of just wanting to wear the clothes. My wife has no problems with me dressing as I like at home, but not go out in the redneck conservative community where we live. So, my main thing is to underdress, and wear skirts at home. If I lived in a more liberal minded area, I would might push my luck and go out in skirts and hosiery. People should be allowed to be free to be who they are within reason, like no bikini's at work!