Star,
If you feel you need to ask a question in a particular section no one will stop you , maybe the mods may move it but unless you ask in the right section you may not get all the answers you need .
I do agree about the Cding label , when I first joined the forum I really hadn't accepted it , that is the great thing about the forum we can find ourselves , I admit I was in a mess when I first joined .
Your take on the need to go out in the RW is your view which you are entitled to , obviously it doesn't fit in with other people's needs . I separated from my wife to give me the opportunity to find myself and achieve a balance in my life , going full time was the only way . I admit it is one heck of a challenge but to me it was a logical step .
Again best of luck with your first session , there really isn't anything to worry about , I'm sure you will have no regrets .
