Victoria makes such valid points. Any guilt springs from social programming that until recently said there's a simple gender binary, Male and female. Each sits in their own box and conforms to a set of norms. The little lady stayed at home while the man went out to earn money to put food on the table cooked by the stay at home mum.
If you're of a certain age it's very difficult to shake off these notions. To get to the position understanding that being you isn't something to be ashamed of.
Our dressing doesn't make the price of oil, food or for that matter anything change one way or the other. In material terms what we do doesn't effect materially anyone's daily life. The only time it does influence someone else's life is if they chose to make it so, usually out of a misguided set of so called moral beliefs. Beliefs that when challenged they find hard if not impossible to justify.
Our problem is we start with these same misconceptions deeply ingrained into us from childhood. In effect we have to press a reset button and start afresh. Once you can come to terms with that things get much easier.
