I have been fortunate to have nothing but amazing experiences with SAs of all ages. I consider myself friendly and I'm never triggered by anyone else who might be bothered by how I present on a given day.

The worse was actually an internet order filled by the Kohl's store in Tukwila, WA. Not one of the ordered panties was sent, but, five wrong panties....not even close to the style and colors. It was obvious to me someone, presumably a woman, did not appreciate the order was by a male name.
You're certainly entitled to feel whatever you want, but your response makes me feel bad for you...now I'm triggered. Most often, when a shipment is wrong, it's wrong because someone made a mistake, not because a warehouse clerk wanted to do double work by shipping the wrong thing and then have to re-ship the correct items a week later. Assuming someone you never met before is out to get you over a catalog order seems....

I recently ordered 3 bras from ThirdLove.com. One of the items was different than what I'd ordered - mistakes happen. One of the others was what I had ordered, but didn't fit the way I wanted. That's my mistake, if anyone's, yet they took the return, replaced the one that was wrong and gave me a full refund on the one I didn't like. I didn't see any need to lecture them on the importance of never making a shipping error.