Saw your post today and wanted to reach out and say ‘hang in there’.

Not sure how it will turn out but hope you have the strength to ride the storm out. If you want to stay in your relationship, I hope you have that happen.

Having said that, I was dating a girl when I was in my 20’s. She was great; beautiful, smart, funny but...not accepting of LGBT people. So one day she found some pictures of me dressed up and assumed that I was having a relationship with this ‘new’ girl. I took a deep breath and made the decision to tell the truth . She immediately broke up with me. Looking back on it, I realize that I was like an animal with its leg caught in a trap. I truly believe I actually wanted her to find my stuff to “release me” if that makes sense.

Wherever you end up, I hope you’re happy and okay with the decision. Big hug!