I enjoy looking at women's clothing and wondering what I would look like wearing it. Love a pair of 4 inch pumps with stockings. It gets me excited, but I don't think it is a fetish. It is me being who I am. When dressed I do get excited by the woman I am, but that diminishes shortly. Dressed I also get excited by men. It is like I am 2 people a male and female, separate ,but the same . .