*Sometimes here we read the wife ends up being portrayed as the "bad guy/gal" in a situation where CDing is withheld from the beginning but the cder now claims that this is "such a huge part of their life". And have anger towards the wife over the reveal not going as you hoped . And a DADT from there on
*Others after being found out it sounds like it is just hidden again but some here call it a DADT but it is really just hidden again.
*But then also there are some that as a couple together make boundaries and and the wife just does not want to see or hear for the most part . ( This would probably be the most successful)
These three seem to be what I see a lot.Please clue me in , how do you end up in a DADT?
Is it what you want?
Have you started out with a DADT and it ended up being more?
What would you wish for in your relationship.?
What advice do you have for couples after what you have gone through?
Lets talk about DADT.