I gave up on the "made for crossdressers" stuff a long time ago. The world has changed with regard to mail order, with so much one can now get online from normal prominent retailers. Unless a male is very big, chances are that clothes made to fit plus sized women will fit "us" well. I find many of my dresses and skirts on Amazon, and normally buy size 2X or XXL, which fits me fine. Should I find that 2X it too tight, so I'll get the next one from that seller at 3X. No big deal as the difference is not that drastic -- and since I'm by no means "out", nobody's going to see me anyhow. Some clothes and heels as others have mentioned do come from overseas, and they'll take longer but it's nice to finally receive them. Buying from Amazon many clothes and shoes are made in our sizes, especially if you put in the search bar "Plus size dress" or something like that. For shoes you can put "Size XX heels" or something like that, with XX your size.
As I've gotten older and so therefore has my alter ego "Karen", the tastes change. Where I previously bought from a company like Birchplace, perhaps I've moved more away from the fetish or cosplay aspect and more towards conservative looking dressing. But the pink fog keeps me buying many dresses and matching heels to the point where I might think I'm done, and then I still buy more.
