COVID has destroyed most plans whether it is femme time or just a good time. My wife usually has taken a week long trip to see her cousin out of state. I had seven to ten days of Stephanie time; evening strolls and drives, 24/7 en femme, hanging clothes in the closet, etc. Weekend overnight babysitting is even out as the kids have no place to go. My reunions appear to be out for next year. Who wants to take a chance on multiple airplane changes and attending a function with four hundred plus people?
