A good therapist will not tell you what to do; they will help you to discover what to do. No recipes are handed out. You create your own dish out of the resources you naturally have.
It is well recognized in gender science that as we get older our sense of self can change dramatically and take different pathways from what was "appropriate" when we were younger. For those who have the crossdressing behavior pattern, it is common for it to get more intense with age because of all kinds of reasons, both psychological and physiological, especially in males with a decline in testicular testosterone and therefore a relative increase in female hormones produced by the pituitary gland. It happens in women as well - they become a bit more masculine because pituitary testosterone is proportionally more influential. Your stated lack of interest in actually transitioning indicates the drivers of you particular blend of a multitude of factors are shifting a bit. It is normal, but in us it is expressed in a different way with more interest in crossdressing resulting from an increased intensity of the female-like feelings.
I was 67 when I came out because the feelings had reached such a height that it was come out or go crazy. I'm 75 now and what has happened since then is amazing. You have a wonderful journey ahead of you, but it will be your unique journey. Don't overthink it and let the changes occur at their own rate. No forcing this or that. That can mess up the natural flow of the change and create severe dysphoria. You will be fine.
