I have been through two divorces now, none related to my dressing because through all of those years I was fighting the "dressing demon" within me. Wanting desperately to do so but always constrained by sociatal needsand because of my job.
Life throws things at us and makes us what we are today.
Does my heart bleed? of course it does, because of all of us not so fortunate as I am now. I feel for those in DADT and Closet situations, life at times must be very difficult for them all.
But I do think as time marches on that acceptance levels are getting better.