I am a late starter at crossdressing, starting in my mid-fifties and lasting the last ten years so far... My experience has been that there's an inverse relationship between how 'sexy' I feel and how sexy my wife sees me to be. I don't have any dysphoria and enjoy being the male in the relationship, but i also find that I feel totally sexy in things that are usually restricted to women. My wife will very occasionally respond to a particular item, but it's very much the exception. I'm just curious if there is anything that the crossdressing SO wears that the GG's on this site see as sexy?