Hopefully, most of us are unrecognizable as our male selves once we get all dolled up so video cameras shouldn't be a problem once we are away from our homes and usual hangouts. The trick of course, is to get out of the house and out of the neighborhood (and don't go to places where they know you as a male). And don't drive a unique vehicle that your friends would recognize.
If you keep your car in a garage, you might be able to get away with just driving out of the garage and driving away but you might want to wait and put the wig on later.
I can't do that so I underdress and change away from home in a parking lot somewhere. It's a PITA, but you have to do what's necessary. Of course I change back before I come back home.
