Sometimes you have to look beyond what was said and see the intention. Any muggle who tries, whatever their true intent (nervous chat, genuine interest) to understand what even we argue about ad nauseam here, deserves a civil response.
Back in the days of yore when we could socialise, I was asked occasionally about how I classified myself. It was never easy to convey exactly how I felt and sometimes I took a circuitous route to get there. Let?s just let everyone take responsibility for their own descriptions and keep out of each others hair.
I think Teresa did ok other than the brief foray into surgery, but I would just put that down to accidental verbal flow over the weir.