Do you just walk straight out the door

[candykowal]

To further this: I've always wondered about ladies whose SO didn't approve. Do you just get dressed to the 9's while she is doing something else and walk out the door for dinner, event, party, etc.
Or do you stroll past the unapproving SO and say, "bye dear!" SLAM!!

Well, as for me, I don't present around my wife, and though we have a DADT relationship, she isn't in the know I have a Candice personna.
But she is independent enough to go out on her own, drive out of state for craft fairs and to visit relatives and she still works.
This affords me, when the planets align, my girly time.
I am sure there are not too many marriages as you suggested....not for long anyway.
If a CDer is dressing while the wife is home, there is some sort of mutual agreement ,,,if they don't approve, CDers are doing there girly time on the sly, at a private office, hotel, or a mistresses place.