Monica,
So much of that is down to the demands of the media . When checking out clothing how many still show tall , wafer thin models , most retail shops have slender mannequins , most glossy magazines use the same format for models . Also consider what is the biggest moneymaker , losing weight and fitness , followed by haircare and skin care . We are literally bombarded with those perfect images that less than 50% of the population fit into .
You only have to do some people watching for a couple of hours to appreciate men and women come in all shapes and sizes , I came to the conclusion I'm going to slot in there somewhere just by being ME ! I have some male traits and I hope I have some female traits and that also applies to women , some have large hands , large feet and masculine features .
I admit I can't accept my image as a man anymore so I try and do it it as little as possible but I still don't make a perfect woman .