I asked Charlotte CD if I-could make a companion thread to hers.
https://www.crossdressers.com/forums...to-your-family
I was wondering what is everyones thoughts on why when first asked do some lie?
I am guessing it might be after years of hiding it you automatically deny it, or you are ashamed, or you think your partner might leave.
My wanting to talk about this more is so wives and girlfriends can see why you might deny when you have the chance to be open.I am sure they already have an idea if they are asking.
And CDs can see how when this happens and you are not forthcoming it makes the wife / gf not trust and it piles on from there. ( first this then that drip drip drip.
So lets talk - what would you wish you might have done differently ?
For those who told the truth right off....some suggestions for others.
From my perspective I think although it is scary to do for some , be honest, do not act like it is something you can stop , or act like it just a rare thing you do ( unless it is)
Lets help each other.
Thanks Charlotte for a great thread.
