Hi, When my wife asked me what my interest in cross dressing was I didn't lie to her (I didn't really know how to answer the question) but I must say that I had been married for 15 yrs before saying anything.
First I have to say that when I started no one had ever heard of cross dressing and sexual identity and gender issues were not talked about. My early cross dress had a profound sexual aspect and in those days a man's sexuality was not something you talked about, and I must say that I was ashamed of how the cross dressing made me feel sexually.
If I were young and knew what I know today about cross dressing I would be open with any partner