I doubt there has ever been a person on earth who was 100% honest 100%of the time. I told my wife, and dressed in front of her well before we were married, but over the years I sometimes edited things that I thought she didn't need to deal with, or that might unnecessarily upset her. She had her own shortcomings, and acknowledged it, and did the same with me. In the long run we trusted what was in each others hearts.