It's all about your attitude. I have a typical male triangular shape with broad shoulders and no hips to speak of. Large hands and extra large feet. I spent years being mortified about these remarkably male traits. Then I decided to archive those insecurities. It didn't take long to understand that it's all about attitude. When you are confident and secure, you transmit positive energy that makes you seem a lot more attractive than you could ever imagine. I have experienced this time and time again over the past four or five years. There's no silver bullet but you have to learn to love yourself and go from there.