I just don't know

[Di]

Many GGs do not do what they could do to look their best. Due to obesity, poor choice in clothing that matches their body type and wearing little or no makeup, they have lowered the bar for everyone, including CDs. It it much easier to look like the typical woman today than it was 40 or 50 years ago. Then the typical woman was less than 5'4" and less than 130 lbs. many, if not most GGs today would not make that "idealistic standard of the '60's.

How offensive!
According to the CDC men and women have both changed since the 60s women up 18.5 % and men 19.5 % and yet you attack women.
I astounds me sometimes the things CDs say on this forum.
For CDs who say they want support understanding they sure are critical of women. We see posts all the time here how much nicer the cd says they looks than the wife. You would think reading here that CDs hate women.
I am appalled.....


To the o p ....the most important thing in this post
You are not a freek, it is more common than you think you are not alone .
Think of it as a gift. Maybe befriend some here, get tips to help you look how you want . Just be you there is nothing wrong. Accept yourself and try to stop the negative thoughts towards yourself . Best wishes .