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Underdressing: Yes, I've done that, but usually only panties. I think that wearing a bra and/or a camisole would be too visible. When I underdress in panties, I always throw a pair of tighty whities into the laundry to keep the count straight. It's my way of avoiding
questions.
Sometimes I'll wear pantyhose in the winter "to keep warm." sometimes, I'll even wear a pair of yoga leggings under my boy pants.
Before COVID, when I was taking yoga classes at my local gym, I would typically wear very femme yoga leggings (like floral, I love floral leggings) and a femme top (like a tank top or racer back in a solid femme color). I would change at work, before going to yoga class, either in my private office or in the bathroom. I would then "overdress" in my typical male yoga outfit of blue loose-fit yoga pants and a loose-fit T-shirt. As soon as I got to yoga class, I would take off my boy clothes and present my girl clothes.
Most of the GGs were pretty cool with it, maybe some even jealous of my color selections. The guys would barely even look my way for fear of "catching it".
There was also a time when I would go to a salon every 4 weeks or so for a pedicure. Unlike my wife, who always got the same color, I would always get a different color: red,pink, fuchsia, blue or purple. I would do special themed colors for some holidays, like Halloween, Christmas, Valentine's Day, St Patrick's Day and Easter. I even wore my toe nail polish to whatever yoga class I was attending. The biggest problem with toe nail polish was making sure I arranged my shower after my wife went downstairs for breakfast. DADT
I only painted my nails twice. The first time I put on clear nail polish, but I got called out on it by a co-worker. After that, I started using Opi Envy matte (clear) nail polish. Once when I was out of town on a long term assignment, I went to a local salon for a mani/pedi. She put a very pale OPI pink on my fingers and then a shiny clear topcoat. I planned on taking in off when I returned to work on Monday, but I decided to leave it on. I did take it off before going home on my biweekly weekend off.
My advice on wearing a bra to work, if you're not out at work and don't want to be, "Just say 'no'" There's so many ways that a bra can give you away.
1. The most obvious one, the bra lines, especially as these become more visible as you reach and bend over
2. The little buckle things on the bras straps
3. The place in back where the bra hooks, where the fabric is double width
4. The place around the straps where the bra indents your skin
5. The way the bra shows light and dark patterns, even through a shirt and sweater.
If you must do it, I would suggest a front close bra without adjustable straps or a white or nude "athletic" bra without any buckles or clasps.
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