Ever turn yourself on?

[alesha_cd]

I used to believe I was your average garden variety crossdresser but after reading these responses, I?d now have to say no definitely not. I have previously posted about being a fetish dresser, I think it was a docrobbysherry post; ?Where are my fetish dressers at? or something like that.

I am a very sexual person (happily married!) and definitely get turned on every.. single..time.. I dress. I believe I have some non TS form of AGP (if that exists) since I love to see and get turned on by myself dressed up. As I?ve posted before, when I go out to dinner or clubbing to dance with my wife, I prefer venues with mirrors so I can occasionally catch a glimpse of myself in said mirror. It must be some deep seated validation at some level I imagine. I have absolutely no intentions of transitioning, it just feels like I?m a creative artist that trying to take a male body and transform that male image into that of a sexy woman.

Also with my wife?s full support, I will also admit to taking a lot of lingerie photo/video shoots that absolutely turn me on. So my answer to the OP?s question is a definite Yas Queen! Maybe it?s my non Anglo Spanish/Italian ethnicity or maybe it was my liberal Uni experience but I have never been a conservative person. Again, these previous responses make me feel that I may be in the minority but I will wave the fetish flag proudly!

Lux I would have to totally agree with you. I'm very sexual as well, happily married, and get turned on every time I dress. This was true when I was first starting to dress during puberty around age 11 and continues now that I'm in my 50s. Like you, I have no intentions of transitioning. My dressing is just a way to express myself as well as being creative and trying to transform my male self into as much of a female appearance as possible. Once the transformation is complete, I definitely get a turn on from it. It allows me to express a sexual side of me that my male self doesn't. Fortunately I'm blessed to be able to share those experiences with my wife unless of course I'm dressing by myself. She knows how beautiful she is to me because I express it to her often by my actions and words. When dressed, I don't feel as though I'm cheating her by admiring my own appearance because I still greatly admire hers.... and seeing myself transformed is an added benefit for both of us.

[dtride]

Yes I do, I do get excited when I put on high heels and a short skirt, I don't get to do it that much,

[loricurtis]

Very well said, i mean i would have said the same thing, my wife also helps me do this thing we do