Ah, the perils of a cross dresser! In our DADT marriage. Not a word from my wife since the 1980's. I have gone out fully en femme on Halloween decades ago. Before Covid-19 when she was babysitting over night I have gone out en femme for a drive and evening stroll. Since there has been absolutely no discussions I do not see my adventures as out of line. However, if you told your wife you do not leave the home en femme and with makeup just hope you're not in a serious car accident end up in the ER.