Let me be crystal clear about this, right up front... You have every right to be who you are, even if that means you want to be a bearded lady. Just be clear that presenting in public that way is, to a certain extent, hurtful to the cause of acceptance for those of us who wish to be seen and treated as one gender. If you identify as a male and deliberately present as a man in a dress, that is a choice. Again, I totally recognize your right to make that choice but I insist that you recognize that, to the less-informed public, your choice reinforces the notion being any kind of TG is a "choice".