I agree with Char. I just spent 4 days in New Hampshire with my wife. She loves hiking, so we hiked in the mornings. I stay in male mode for that, it's just easier.
Then it's back to our motel to shower and change. For me,, into girl mode. We go for dinner, and then stroll the village shops before heading in for the night. We even met a tg friend for dinner one night.
....And we both got what we wanted....
All and all, I spent way more time in girl mode, than boy mode. And the plus side.... wifey said she likes me better that way lol.