The fact that HE was a hairy beast, compared to my smooth skinned, feminine presentation, merely brought home the fact that HE was the predator, and I was merely his ( ahem, willing ) prey!
Or perhaps more powerfully, he the pursuer and you the pursued that has accepted his advances.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.