My wife knows, told her when things got serious and we decided to move in together.
At first she was really excited! Enjoyed, helped me and was really impressed at my mastery of walking in high heels like a woman.
Then I lost my job at the time, everything was on her, and I still wanted to dress like a woman? Too much for her, something switched off in her head about this.
We entered full DADT mode, and she didn?t even wanted to hear about it. She knew that I dressed sometimes, but never talked about it again.
Then we moved to Canada, to a very diverse city and neighborhood? she?s more comfortable now. Knows that I have a huge wardrobe, says that I have good taste in shoes (I have), lets me go to events and dinners with CD friends, she just prefers me to dress when she?s not home. Don?t mind me coming back when she?s asleep?
It?s a work in progress I?d say. I try to keep it respectful, and be mindful of her space. So far, it?s working.
