I wonder what kind of letter a wife married to a cross dressing husband would tell another wife in the same situation? It's like a coin (cross dressing) with two sides (husband and wife). My wife and I approached the subject decades ago (mid 1980's). I am not a fan of letter writing to express oneself on a complicated topic. It reminds me of the days of WW2 when a Western Union messenger would deliver a telegram that a husband or a son or a brother died in service to his country. I rather like a session of Q & A's. There is another ongoing thread on one's journey through the life of a cross dresser. I think I can lay on a psychiatrist's couch all day and come up with one factual statement; "I do not know why I do what I do!" I can tell my wife how I progressed through life. I can tell my wife all the emotions I have felt and still feel. But, I cannot answer the "Why?"
