The gay issue I would never believe anymore. No matter how much any cd'er would say no, most ( not all but most ) are at least bi sexual . I see it here in the forums all the time - "Should I let him kiss me","he touched my legs and I loved it" , "we made out and had to get a room" , "I slow danced and made out with XXXX in front of my wife !" You know.... and that's just what I see written here. I dont care what anyone sexuality is but to protest so much about ( or claiming a wife hasn't done her research etc etc ) being totally straight isnt the 100% truth either .
In my own life I asked my ex husband the same thing because he was just FLAMING when he would dress and he insisted over and over he was not, but in the end that WAS a lie ,, he advertised himself to men in every conceivable place possible from FB to Flickr to CL he is there and I know some from here do too. So after both these things Id never believe that "most' cd'ers are totally straight .
I see a quite a few transition from just dressing here too or sometimes have a terrible fit if they think they cant .