Let’s just say that if I knew what I know now at 20 years old, I would have tried to transition. We just didn’t know and thought we were alone. And now, it is not fair to my wife for me to come out and say I want to be a woman.
Let’s just say that if I knew what I know now at 20 years old, I would have tried to transition. We just didn’t know and thought we were alone. And now, it is not fair to my wife for me to come out and say I want to be a woman.
20 years ago, I was certain that my desire to dress was long gone and never coming back. Regardless, I should have been more forthcoming and upfront about it before I got married. But I assumed the past was the past, so I kept that piece a secret. In retrospect, that was a mistake.
Honesty makes things a lot simpler for everyone, because everything comes out eventually, and it's one less story you have to keep straight. If your SO were to find your past to be unacceptable, the present is already on shaky ground and the future is even worse.
I would bet heavily on all the Super Bowl winners!!
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