Well I'm in a little of a perdikement. Last night my wife picked up a FaceTime call from her sister, my wife is very loose when on FaceTime calls so I usally leave the room. I was getting up to leave the room and my wife gave me the finger jester to sit down because she was leaving. Her mother hasn't been feeling well lately and she was going to sleep at her parents house and her mom has some medical test to do this morning anyway. She was at the front door getting dressed to leave and I hear them, blah,blah,blah,blah and all at once I hear my SIL go quit. I turn to my wife and she putting the phone down on the steps as she's putting on her boots. The next thing I hear is a message on my phone, it was my SIL with a emoji with the finger in front of the mouth like telling me to be quit. I respond why?
My wife blew me a few kisses and left, I went behind her to lock the front door plus the screen door because my kids have the house key and I don't like surprise visits. A few minutes later I get another message from the SIL again "Finally, I finally seen you. I got a few glances in the past but today I got a good look".
Oh NO, I don't know how to respond to this so I decided not to and I sit there in a daze, she sends another message "I hope your not upset or embarrassed or ashamed, you have nothing to be ashamed about OMG you look beautiful and if I didn't have an idea about this I would have never known it was you". Again I didn't answer but for some reason after that message I got so sexually aroused of the idea of her seeing me and her telling me that I looked good.
Her next message was her explaining to me how bad she wants to talk to my wife and tell her she knows and how she wants to share this with us but doesn't want to cause any marriage problems.
My SIL is crazy we have pulled her out of some crazy situations in the past, I'm more of a father figure to her and she doesn't care about what anyone says, she would probably dress me up on Friday and Saturday nights and she would party and paint the town red with me.
I made my first message back telling her that her sister stated to me she wanted this our bond our secret and wanted it left between us and she knows that her sister knows but really doesn't, she doesn't know enough and the enough is going to be speculation part for her.
She messaged me back telling me that it was her sisters mistake that she seen me and if I want we could erase all these messages and the pretend it never happened and the secret is good with her. I messaged back I will think about it and I will let her know what I decide, I want to be honest but I also don't want to wake up the bear and get her upset.
SIL is so crazy, she messaged asking if she could FaceTime me so she could see me again and get a better look at what I was wearing, I didn't even respond.
The next message was my wife blowing me kisses goodnight, I didn't know what to do, if I should have mentioned something, her acceptance when I told her years ago was the honesty and how hard it must have been for me to tell her something like that and if I could tell her that I can tell her anything in the future. I didn't have a chance for the situation to sink in yet and decided not to tell her last night, I'm sure I could come up with some BS that I didn't want to concern her with her mother sick . To me honesty is the best policy but when it comes to this situation we have to make sure all our angles are covered and be prepared for anything and she may not be in a very patient mood being preoccupied with her mother sick, but waiting and her thinking I'm holding out on her could also make thinks bad to.
I'm just sitting here trying to figure out the right scenario, as much as I believe it would be a blast sharing this with my SIL I don't believe I should bring that up and maybe just be careful I don't blow away what took years to build. Sometimes times it's like a roll of the dice, you just don't know how ther going to land.