I have just came out as a cross dresser & according to my wife I am very manly. The way I was brought up was a man doesn't cry nor would he ever dress as a woman. I do have a deeper voice. If I was to dress in full female attire, talking to somebody they would straight up know I am a male. Of course I also don't have a woman's figure. When going out do you soften your voice or try to change the pitch? Try to sound more female.
Alexis