Update. I've told her. Last night in bed I broke it to her slowly and she took it very well it seems. I'm sure she has some processing to do. But she even let me put something on to show her. So I think she understands better than I could expect. She says she's known for about 4 months. She saw a picture on my phone that had her wondering. But it's still a great feeling to get this off my chest.. both silicone and hairy. It's something I've held inside for 30 years.
