To a degree I would agree with Debbie. What I have found is my attitude toward women has done a 180? turnabout since I've started CDing. To be blunt, I used to look at a woman and wonder what a romp in bed with her might be like. When I look at a woman now, I am interested in what she's wearing, do I like it, how it might look on me, and how she carries herself (her walk, gestures, etc.) I'm much more interested in her overall presence than I am in her sexuality. Actually, those thoughts no longer enter my mind.